Hi Reader,

Whenever something doesn't go "perfectly," it can really get me down.

In my leadership class, we recently talked about how women and girls are culturally and socially taught to aim for "perfection." From our work to our relationships and appearance…you know what I mean.

On the flipside, boys are often taught to be bold and brave. Of course, there are variations (and men can struggle with perfectionism too!). But there's a clear trend, and it sure resonated with me.

Whether it’s a client project, a meeting, or a new idea—if it flops, I’ve failed in my mind. I’ve let down the perfection (even if I had a bunch of other “perfect” experiences before then).

The thing about being an entrepreneur is there are plenty of opportunities to not be perfect.

For instance, we have a lot going on with Drio and Monument Women’s Creative Alliance right now. Both are growing, which means our plate is particularly full—which means perfection is even more unlikely.

I want to maintain our momentum, but I also want to have a life outside work. That means sometimes things fall through the cracks, I get behind on a deadline, or I forget to eat lunch…and wind up a little hangry.

As my group reminded me: Being flawless across the board is, frankly, a pipe dream. (Even if you’re not in an intense busy period.)

It’s been such a relief having fellow women to open up with. Every one of us has imperfect moments, yet most of us still hold ourselves to perfect standards.

So if it makes you feel better… I, Rachel 🤚🏻, am not perfect. While I love sharing my accomplishments, I want you to know I experience my share of bumpy roads.

Here’s what I do when I’m overwhelmed by it all:

I start by creating a to-do list of my own tasks, plus a list of items I need to talk to Hazel about. I know she’s got a lot on her plate too. By keeping a list, I don’t need to bother her each time something pops up. When it is time to talk through things, I always end up feeling better—whether it’s with Hazel or our business coach. Having a sounding board keeps me grounded, especially when the Perfection Monster strikes.

If all else fails, I show up. I do my best. I live and learn.

This is your reminder to do the same. :)

Maybe if we remind each other enough, we'll get more comfortable embracing our brave and bold sides too.

Rachel McFadden the left brain 1014 W. 36TH ST BALTIMORE, MD 410.635.0229 Read our Customer Reviews

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